My top 3 secrets to feeling GREAT.

I just had to share this with you.

Having had the privilege to coach hundreds of women over the years, I came to learn what works and what doesn’t. Typically, women come to me when they’re fed up. Really fed up about their life. What seems to be causing the most pain is their low sense of worth and confidence as well as deprived romantic relationships and unfulfilled ambitions.

I can relate to them because I haven’t always felt like a Star (one of my Core Desired Feelings). In fact, my confidence and self-esteem used to be pretty low in my early twenties. A turbulent upbringing and poor choices in my romantic life led me to feel anxious and depressed. 

So I DECIDED to take control of my life, create my own happiness and most of all, I learned to love myself.

Being a Star is an easy concept to understand. I believe we are all made of Stardust. All made of the same stuff which is…divine and eternal. Being a Star is not about winning popularity contests or blowing your own trumpet. It’s about feeling GREAT!  Jumping out of bed every morning, dedicating your life to what you love and fulfilling your life’s purpose. I got to a place where I know now that it’s ok to be me and do whatever my heart wants to do. I want the same for you. Just like me, YOU ARE A STAR and I want you to feel like the Star of your own life.

Here are my top 3 secrets for feeling like a Star everyday:

1 – I work on my mindset 1 hour a day from 6.30 to 7.30. The first thing I do when I wake up is thank the Divine Source Energy for being alive and for my feet touching the floor once again. I get up, make coffee and say my mantras. The beauty of reciting your mantras when you wake up is that you get to re-programme your Subconscious mind and signal to your brain what’s possible.

I want to give you my favourite mantra by Gay Hendrix: “I expand in Abundance, Success and Love everyday as I inspire others around me to do the same”.

After that, I go on to read/watch/listen to inspiring material that makes me feel good. It’s all about raising your vibration and getting into a High-Vibe mindset to start the day.

2 – I am very protective of my Freedom. I don’t let anyone tell me what to do. I set boundaries with love and don’t let anyone dictate who I should be. I DECIDE how I want to feel and what I want to be doing with my life. I write my own new scripts and I learned to detach myself from other people’s expectations or criticism. I feel like a Star because I created a lifestyle of freedom where I do everything, including work, on my own terms.

3 – I’ve got the backup of the best coaches and mentors in the world. I hire them, work with them and draw my courage from them. If they are not yet within reach (i.e. Oprah Winfrey!), they become my virtual mentors and I soak in their strength and wisdom through the Internet. For the past 10 years, I have enlisted the support of amazing individuals who helped me fulfill the vision I had for myself and become the Woman I wanted to be.

My intention is to inspire you to become the Star of your own life. I want you to become the Woman you have always wanted to be. What else could you be? So don’t be scared to get clear on your dreams and build up the courage to make they come true. You’ll get to feel like a Queen. Every. Single. Day.

Nancy Ajavon